Lize & Lesego
A joyous wedding
…after you get back from the honeymoon, you’re still going to be in wedding mode for a bit. That’s because more often than not, there are some to-dos
Lesego and Lize tied the knot in what could only be described as a truly South African wedding. The ceremony was a mixture of Afrikaans, Sesotho and even Tshivenda wedding traditions. “There was a lot of ululating at the ceremony” says Lize, the bride, about her big day.
The ceremony took place over two days in December at the couples’ home, a farm in the Muldersdrift area. It included an informal braai during which all the guests joined in the excitement of decorating the tent for the formal ceremony held the next day. “It was perfect, it was so hot that the rain after the ceremony was welcome” says Lize.
The couple who met at Stellenbosch University say they knew they were meant to spend the rest of their lives together when they could hold each other’s interest for longer than an hour.
Their joyous wedding only served to seal the deal for a couple that is clearly madly in love. “We didn’t drink anywhere near as much as we thought we would n idea of how hot he is she was friggin hot in her wedding dress” says the groom, Lesego, and in response Lize was equally impressed; “to give you the first time my mother met him she said to me ‘you didn’t tell me he was so handsome, in Afrikaans of course”.
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Clean and Store Your Gown
Have your dress dry-cleaned within six months of your wedding – the sooner, the better! It’s important to use a service that specialises in wedding dresses so they use the right solvents. Make sure they stuff it with acid-free tissue, avoid using metal pins or buckles, and store it in a box. Once it’s back home, store it in a cool, dry place like an out-of-the-way closet.
Send Thank-You Notes
You should plan to mail your thank-you notes within two months of your wedding. Give yourself a head start by writing notes as gifts arrive (you’ll thank us later!). Try setting a goal, like 10 a night, and crank them out during ad breaks or while dinner’s in the oven. Divvy up the project with your spouse and the job will be half as daunting. But no matter who writes the actual notes, you should both sign each one. Save yourself a hand cramp by printing out addresses and return address labels if you can – plus, it’ll look neater.
Tackle Registry Returns
Stop trying to convince yourself that two blenders may actually come in handy – just bite the bullet and return registry items within two months of your wedding. While stores are likely to be lenient with couples who’ve registered with them, each store will have a different return policy, so research who will accept what, and for how long.
Change Your Name (If You’ve Decided To!)
If you do choose to change your name, it’s a good idea to change all of your IDs within 90 days of getting married. This includes your driver’s license, passport, and credit cards.
Give Everyone Your New Address
If your marriage involved a move, it’s perfectly fine to send a mass email or an e-card with your new address.
Order Your Wedding Photos
On your first anniversary, wouldn’t you love to watch your wedding video and flip through your album? Don’t put off your photo selection and video requests too long! Most photographers and videographers issue a standard contract that gives you six months to a year to select album photos and edit footage for your video. If you don’t, you may have to pay extra.